We all want to know how to be attractive right ? Especially to Girls.
There are always things that you can improve on to make yourself better or more attractive to people.
First of all lets talk about the obvious stuff like grooming,having a decent haircut ,working out, not dressing like a little kid, smiling and so on there are tons of articles out there about this stuff and we are not gonna discuss about that.
I’m not gonna waste time talking about stuff like Get a haircut or Don’t be fat.
Because I’m gonna assume that you’re smart enough to know that if you’re 100 percent body fat you need to go to the gym and if your hair is like 2 feet long you need to cut it.
This blog isn’t gonna be any generic advice like that anyone can come up with this is gonna be specific stuff that you can actually start doing right now to become more attractive and grab people attention.
#1 Grow a beard
Let me put it simply If you have a face that’s extremely good-looking naturally then you usually look better without a beard so people can see it but if you have a face that’s average or below average then you usually look better with a beard because what it does is help to hide the imperfections of your face.
You may have heard that people find symmetrical faces attractive but most faces aren’t symmetrical but when you have a beard it usually covers half your face which means half of that asymmetry is now hidden so you look twice as symmetrical as you did before,it serves to hide your messed up jawline or your acne or anything else you might not like about your face.
#2 Be confident
I’m sure you already know girls like confidence they don’t want to be around someone who’s insecure and desperate if that’s you then you should definitely change this.
Confidence gives you the power to do things in life that you otherwise are afraid to do. I know its not just easy to build your confidence in a day. But i have written a summarized article on how to build confidence you can check that out.
#3 Be positive
In addition to confidence something that’s often overlooked is positivity people like to be around positive people. Positive people are automatically attractive, think about it Do you want to be around someone who’s always complaining always being negative about stuff, always doing negative things- you don’t, Right .
The problem with guys is that a lot of them act negative around girls they complain, they grill her about why don’t you like me. Am i not good enough for you.
Come on man. Seriously.
Don’t tell a joke and then look to see if the girls laughing and don’t feel bad if she isn’t. Cut that shit out girls hate it. Even guys hate it.
People like positive people because positivity makes you feel better. Positive people are active as they enjoy doing things.They have a life, they talk to people because it’s fun not because they want to impress anyone. They are loaded with goals and ambitions and dreams and passions.
If you’re smiling and having fun you will instantly be more attractive than when you’re not smiling and having fun.
#4 Have a pet
Honestly everyone likes animals and having a pet just makes you seem like a nicer more well-rounded guy who isn’t a douche bag and who is responsible enough to take care of someone.
Also people are very protective of their pets so if you say a girl that you don’t like dogs and if she has one, it doesn’t matter if you look like Ryan Reynolds that girl’s gonna dock you at least two to three points.
And if you like dogs but you don’t have one she’ll give you plus one.
If you like dogs and you also have one she’ll give you plus two so if you like animals get one.
Disclaimer : If you don’t like animals don’t get one just to impress a girl if you know you’re not gonna take care of it that’s just dumb.
#5 Have a hobby
Have you ever talked to someone right and that person just casually slips out that they’re an amateur skydiver or a guitar player and didn’t that make you think damn this guy is really cool.
By getting a hobby you become more interesting and you start showing off more personality through these hobbies whether it’s drawing or making desserts or a skateboarding.
These things are unique to you and they’re interesting to everyone else and no one can take that away from you not only is this going to make you a more interesting person when you’re being sociable and talking to other people but also hobbies make you happier because you’re actually enjoying doing that activity and that is attractive.
#6 Talk less
- Don’t go on talking and talking let the girl talk
- Don’t text more than she texts you
- Don’t call her more than she calls you
- Don’t send her a long-ass text if she’s sending you a short ass text
If she asks you a question and you know the answer is gonna suck don’t sit there trying to defend yourself to her less is more a lot of guys suffer from over talking and it’s really unattractive.
If she texts you when you’re not sure if you should reply, the answer is you shouldn’t. When in doubt just be quiet there’s nothing worse than a guy who talks and talks but doesn’t actually have anything worth saying.
So those are the six ways to improve your personality and become more attractive. Try them out for a few days leave a comment let me know how they work for you.
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